Winning Decisions
Get Along without Giving In

There are three sides to every story: your side, my side, and the truth.
Robert Evans

When we try to pick out anything by itself, we find it hitched to everything else in the Universe.
John Muir

For every complex problem, there is a solution that is simple, neat, and wrong.
Henry L. Mencken

The significant problems we have cannot be solved at the same level of thinking with which we created them.
Albert Einstein

You never change things by fighting the existing reality. To change something, build a new model that makes the existing model obsolete.
Buckminster Fuller

Be the change you wish to see in the world.
Mahatma Gandhi

Are you looking for alternatives to

  • Being excluded from decisions that affect you?
  • divisive language or polarization?
  • questionable claims?
  • being offered two unpleasant options?
  • personal attacks?
  • pressure from people seeking personal gain?
  • following a path promoted by others?
  • 51% dismissing or ignoring the other 49%?
  • cures that are worse than the disease?
  • any of the above from your elected representatives or candidates?

You are welcome to browse but we suggest starting with our Methods page. If you jump around, look for and follow any links to help you catch up with related topics.

Mark Twain quipped, It could probably be shown by facts and figures that there is no distinctly native criminal class except Congress. After working with maximum security prisoners as a former Alternatives to Violence Project facilitator, I started wondering if politicians could also learn these fundamental communication, problem-solving, and collaboration skills. The good news is we are exploring solutions that comply with existing laws and work as a grassroots effort at very little cost. The bad news is it probably requires a grassroots effort which depends on the active participation of many people. Read about options on our Election Reform page.

Who thinks up all this stuff? Many people. Learn more on our About page.

One of our long-term goals is a free web app to guide groups and individuals through the decision-making process described on our Methods page. Contact us if you'd like to help. No special skills needed. The only requirement is a desire to help and learn.



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